Did you hear about the singer Ricky Martin who is gay? He picked out an egg donor then had the eggs fertilized with his sperm and had a biologically unrelated surrogate mother gestate the babies in her womb. He got two healthy twin sons.
Why do infertile couples bother to adopt infants when there are options like donor eggs and surrogacy?
Using donors and surrogates……
The baby’s mother-
Using donor eggs– Is anonymous and the biological mother doesn’t have to endure any psycological trauma and has no emotional connection to the baby. The adoptive parents don’t have to worry about a birthmother showing up and breaking thier primary bond with the child. They can pick a mother who has had a through medical examination for heredity genetic defects, mental illness and drug use. The can view photos and pick a mother who is beautiful and who has a high IQ. All the egg donors I have seen in the catalogs are college graduates.
The baby’s father–
The husband of the infertile woman. His wife’s infertility shouldn’t make him infertile too, he deserves to have his own bio babies. This is often very important to men.
The surrogate mother– A pre screened healthy woman who doesnt drink or use drugs. She has most likely taken nutritional supplements and her body is in optimal condition for gestating and birthing healthy babies.
The adoption option–
The baby’s mother– An immature irresponsible young women most likely from a Jerry Springer Show type of family. She will be extremly emotionally attached to her baby and is too immature to fully understand and cope with the boundaries of an open adoption relationship. Infant adoption is a catch 22. Mothers of good genetic stock aren’t screwed up enough to give thier newborn babies away to strangers…..If a mother is unfit enough to give away her baby she is unfortunatly not only unfit enough to parent but is also unfit where she shouldn’t be breeding and spreading her inferior genes. She is most likely a failure in school with a low IQ. I have read on adoption forums that if an adoptive couple checks off that they don’t want a baby from a birthmother who has smoked during her pregnancy that they will be on the waiting list for a long time….Birthmothers tend to come from families with drug abuse and alcholism. I have seen birthmother blogs and I have never seen an attractive birthmother. Most of them look like the trailer park white trash that they are. Ugly squirrely faces, buck teeth, obese etc. Birthmothers are deadbeat moms. Why would adoptive parents pay 30 grand for some loser’s baby?
The baby’s father—Not the infertile woman’s husband but a pimply faced teenage horn dog who knocked up and dumped the birthmother. He is most likely a loser with a low IQ, history of problems with the law, and a drug and alcohol abuser.
With donor eggs and surrogacy thier baby comes from a genetic legacy of beauty, health and intellegence and is born by the miracle of science and a strong healthy surrogate.
With adoption the baby is born with a genetic legacy of underachievers, family abuse and irresponsiblity.
If a young women is too stupid and trashy to raise her baby then I think she should just have an abortion. I don’t see anything wrong with killing embryos. The world is over populated and only the stupid people are breeding. I know infertile couples are desperate but please….. Next time you are shopping at Walmart look at the white trash there…. Pick out some random trashy teenager… say enie meanie minie mo I pick Y-O-U …. congratulations thats your birthmother! Do you want to raise her little crotch dropping? You probably wouldn’t even want to use the bathroom after her.
An infertile couples best option would be IVF which also kills alot of embryos trying to get one birthed baby (no big deal) Then if that doesnt work then donor eggs used with a biologically unrelated surrogate mother.
Why even bother to adopt? Why not use donor eggs and a surrogate? Is money the issue? Is it too expensive?
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